反刍行为:一件事情(尤其是不好的事情)发生之后,不断地反思如果当时我怎样怎样,那么结果会……
从初中到高中,我和我的朋友一直是反刍动物,认为反刍行为会得到经验,从而以后出现类似情况做打算。直到大学我才发现,其实这只会破坏心情罢了。
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本文适合的读者是99%的失败人士,月薪3万以上和拥有较多社会资源者请绕道。文中的的中国人指广大失败人士,毕竟社会上只有不到1%的成功人士。成功人士阅读此文前应先在乡村生活一年时间,努力观察种地老农,试图带入他这样的角色,把精英气息归零来体察民间疾苦。
中国的社会是建立在人情上的。“最有价值的投资是对人情的投资。”有些话,你要替领导说,然后领导来确认。有些意思,你要猜,猜对了有奖。人情当然重要,但一定不要被人情耽误。“商人重利轻别离”,在商言商,利益至上,可以理解,但不支持。当人情和利益冲突时,最好的解决方法是折中,凡事都要留几分,留条路。虽然一次合作失败,但结果不至于双方关系破裂,所谓好聚好散,也许将来还有合作的机会。一切技术都是为人服务的,世界上最不缺的就是技术。善于利用人情,多多投资人情,在将来一定能够得到回报。
Gradually, I lose feelings about anything. There is no pain, no remorse, no shame, no pity. Having gone through so much, few things can leave scars on the heart. Emotionless, careless, it seems I care nothing. I don't know. My heart is as peaceful as water in a sunny day with mild wind. Those crazy dreams and sleepless nights in the past is no more. I don't know you. You don't know me. So many years past. So many things happened. I am not what I was. You are not what you were. Time washes away the familiar between us. Sometimes I recalled, at that time the day was long, the sky was blue, the land so green.